Lewes Forum thread

The loud idiots who hang round in cars on the corner by Neville green are a disgrace, such a shame they are right by the childrens park, bet their parents are very proud!

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I'd hate to live up Chaville (sorry Neville). Give me a decent estate anyday like Landport.

complain to the council then as they are their tenants plus those cars always parked outside there illegally isn't right either - nice example for young children

Thats the sad thing...all those impressionable young children seeing & hearing them as a constant example of how to conduct yourself. I am only a visitor to the park but I am suprised residents & neighbours havent tried or managed to get something done about it.

Madge...what exactly are this yobs doing ?

Erm..being loud, foul mouthed, dropping litter, blocking pathways, being inconsiderate and intimidating around children visiting the park... We are not talking about young teens with little else to do while they pass through puberty - they are pathetic adults with no manners who should know better and absolutely have more common sense!

I happen to be one of those 'pathetic adults ' your mentioning! Your all big and clever behind your computer aren't you! Talking crap about people you know nothing about. Me and my friends happen to be nice people maybe if people like you actually spoke to us youd see that for yourself. No manners and intimidating!! Quite alot of people we dont know ask us for favours and we happily agree. For example a gentleman needed help loading a car onto a trailer and me and two other friends spent an hour doing so. Besides that fact its the nutters and drunks roaming round streets after dark you should worry about! And as far as common sense is concerned, all of us are more clued up on the ways of this world that the typical lewes republican. Whoever you are talk to me face to face next time, im the pathetic adult with the grey focus.

I happen to be one of those 'pathetic adults ' your mentioning! Your all big and clever behind your computer aren't you! Talking crap about people you know nothing about. Me and my friends happen to be nice people maybe if people like you actually spoke to us youd see that for yourself. No manners and intimidating!! Quite alot of people we dont know ask us for favours and we happily agree. For example a gentleman needed help loading a car onto a trailer and me and two other friends spent an hour doing so. Besides that fact its the nutters and drunks roaming round streets after dark you should worry about! And as far as common sense is concerned, all of us are more clued up on the ways of this world that the typical lewes republican. Whoever you are talk to me face to face next time, im the pathetic adult with the grey focus.

So few words, so many of them spelt wrong - what a fine example of modern youth!

And so it starts again,were pathetic adults! I love this forum,never fails to amaze me how 2cars parked on double yellow lines are so bad.wonder if we should act as bad as we are made out to be?and its spelt nevill not neville!

So what do you do for a job Ross ?

Well teacher maybe being in your position you wood welcome private lessonz on how to speel! You know who I am now im not hiding. Perhaps you could introduce your perfect self and maybe shed some light on how to be the perfect neighbour, perfect member of society and generally captain WOW! It must be a very boring place in your ivory tower, maybe next time when your watching us pathetic adults, you could join us.
And just for Nev vile, to your surprise I work 9 to 5 within the finance industry based in Brighton. Not that its any of your business! As we want to know about one another, what did you have for dinner?

He most likely ate s**t for dinner!!!

How does voicing your opinion anonomously on a forum really help the problem?surely if you came and spoke to us you would physically see what difference your thoughts and ideas make?we dont bite and were all civil people,and i can accept constructive criticism,or you can hide behind an alias?up to you

U iz all d***kheadz,i lyk talkin lyk dis!!!no not really im just moaning about people who cry about things over the internet, fu**ing forum warriors get a life!let the police and council do there jobs,if its such a major issue it would have been sorted ages ago,its the same in any town or city in the country,except here theres more upper class im much better than the average man so we must remove them from existence type of people! I could carry this on all night but what does it gain me?sore thumbs from writing on a iphone thats all!!!

Ross if you work 9-5 you can't be one of the nev Chavs , its just the mess of fag butts , high energy drink cans that get left there. , the are parking spaces near there if you mates don't mind walking just a few yards and most of your problems would just disappear , it' is a bit petty but why does the black mondo feel the need to park on the grass outside the house we pay for , for him , no one else in our close does it again it's only a few strides from a free space , its just a matter of standards and being a decent part of society , I hope when you get a little older you will see our point of view , we were all young once , we just didn't have the things you have , have a good day at work tomorrow

Does anyone know the definition of the word chav?is it even a real word?cant be bothered to look to be honest but i dont consider myself a chav,i consider myself equal to all of you?so are you chavs as well?namethrowing gets you nowhere,and the police themselves have said its ok to park on the grass,its not your property so its not your problem,maybe if things werent taken so seriously you wouldnt have to vent your anger on a public forum?or come and tell us when theres a problem?you would then fiind out were decent people who are just different to you?

Why would anyone who feels intimidated by you want to confront any of you? Does knowing that make you feel big strong and proud? One day hopefully you will 'grow up' and realize how ridiculous you all are, you may even feel embarrassed when your children learn how you happily developed a bad reputation for spending your time loitering by a children’s park causing discern amongst those who live around you. If your children follow your example and earn themselves a similarly bad reputation are you sure you will feel justifiably proud parents? People are not just moaning for the sake of it, why don’t you take a good look at yourselves and how you present yourselves to others, if you listen to what people are saying and are honest you will see you only have yourselves to blame. People don’t need to speak to you face to face, you already know what the problems are and it’s not about what is enforceable by law it’s simply about being responsible and considerate members of the community.

Why would anyone who feels intimidated by you want to confront any of you? Does knowing that make you feel big strong and proud? One day hopefully you will 'grow up' and realize how ridiculous you all are, you may even feel embarrassed when your children learn how you happily developed a bad reputation for spending your time loitering by a children’s park causing discern amongst those who live around you. If your children follow your example and earn themselves a similarly bad reputation are you sure you will feel justifiably proud parents? People are not just moaning for the sake of it, why don’t you take a good look at yourselves and how you present yourselves to others, if you listen to what people are saying and are honest you will see you only have yourselves to blame. People don’t need to speak to you face to face, you already know what the problems are and it’s not about what is enforceable by law it’s simply about being responsible and considerate members of the community.

So many people come and talk to us,and there not intimidated in the slightest,im not proud but any group of people is going to seem intimidating,the problems are parking(which is also done by park users)volume of noise(main road,people in park,other people)and rubbish?it cant all be blamed on us even though we contribute,there are other groups of people who use the green,but we take all the s**t from that as well,we could clear up the rubbish if your going to help?as its not just us!

I see these 'Neville Chavs' get brought up a lot on this forum. If the fact these lads don't use designated parking spaces that is the main concern then in the general scheme of things, you have literally nothing to worry about in comparison to some estates around the country. I've seen gangs pull the engine shut-off lever on the back of a bus then proceed to knock sh*t out of the driver and rob the money, when I lived up North in a rundown area.

Its part of the problem and the rubbish,i dont agree with the chav,rude,inconsiderate and idiots tho,loud maybe but what group of people isnt?

Madge - Who said anything about confronting anyone? To confront someone would spark confrontation, we are not like that. We dont go round beating people up robbing, vandalising or anything like that. No it doent make us feel big, strong or proud at all when are you to realise we are not those kind of people? Why say to happily develop a bad reputation? We only develop a bad reputation from people like you who watch far too much news and read far too many articles regarding anti social behaviour around the country and then tar us with the same brush! News flash that makes you pathetic and narrow minded. And yes i would be a justifiably proud of all my children what ever they do especially if the worst they did was loiter! That makes me a good parent. And yes i do reflect on myself from time to time, and i see a hard working good father with a bright future! Does that answer you?!!
Anyway off now as have work in the morning, no doubt these posts will continue a path of ratred towards modern youth or pathetic adults!
Off now though as have

P.s thank you Bloke 2 - its nice to know that not all residents think we are filth

Maybe some of you lot need to take a look at some of the "adults" who hang out of pub doorways having a smoke. Drunk, verbally abusive litter louts and they can be extremely intimidating.
Ross, you sound like a decent lad who is just doing what most young adults do when they've got their motors. The litter and the swearing around the kids does p*** people off though. I certainly hung around with me pals when i was your age and just started to drive......wish i was back there again.

Does finance industry include begging or being a cashier at McDonalds?

I don't imagine so! Although I could be wrong.

Madge you are a total hypocrite. You slagged me off for complaining about a council house near me where the kids are allowed to make a horrendous noise outside 24/7. You said I was intolerant and to let kids be kids. Am now you are complaining about some youths making a noise near you....I bet their parents let them make a noise as children without any consideration for others...what do you reckon Madge????????????

Ooo this coould get juicy!!!

Ross you have a job what about the others ? If they are not working maybe they could spare a few minuets to push a broom along just their bit of the kerb , it's just how you present yourselves and right now as you can see its not looking great , mr b's attitude to parking on the grass verge , well it is mine and all of ours , Dunvan close is well kept , none of the other residents feel the need to park across the grass verge and pavement , it just sticking 2 fingers up and saying I don't care about my surroundings , I don't pay so I dont have pride in anything ,

Hey, live and let live guys. I live on the Nevill as well, and I know the guys in question and they're just a normal set of guys going about their life. They don't bother anyone else, and they generally help others when asked to. Those who criticise others just by the their looks, or by they way they "appear" to act, should take a long hard look at themselves, beccause I suspect you may be stuck in a stereotype jacket ! Get out there and enjoy life, meet people, communicate.

We all have jobs for your information Nev Vile. We dont all work 9-5 but all do still work in one way or another do pay tax or have done, that is contributing to society! We can push a broom around yes, thats not a problem, but i dont see the need for people to call us idiots and pathetic adults (ive got to let that go). Clearly people see us as a group of thugs, but i would like to remind all those who do think that way that next time we are all together, please dont hesitate to say hello or ask us for something - i think you would be pleasantly surprised. Parking on a grass verge isn't that big of a deal, people dont seem to mind when bonfire night comes around and people park all over the place. Its not like we churn up the grass or anything but again not a big problem to rectify. Please recognise the fact that although we swear and yes are messy, we are all still nice people with good intentions.

We all have jobs for your information Nev Vile. We dont all work 9-5 but all do still work in one way or another do pay tax or have done, that is contributing to society! We can push a broom around yes, thats not a problem, but i dont see the need for people to call us idiots and pathetic adults (ive got to let that go). Clearly people see us as a group of thugs, but i would like to remind all those who do think that way that next time we are all together, please dont hesitate to say hello or ask us for something - i think you would be pleasantly surprised. Parking on a grass verge isn't that big of a deal, people dont seem to mind when bonfire night comes around and people park all over the place. Its not like we churn up the grass or anything but again not a big problem to rectify. Please recognise the fact that although we swear and yes are messy, we are all still nice people with good intentions.

Sorry if confront was the wrong term to use but to be fair many people have politely pointed out the things that offend and it is clear you all believe your behavior around young children is perfectly acceptable and appropriate so any discussion face to face or otherwise is pointless. You seem to underestimate how many people do actually know you and your comments continue to confirm to all that you think more like children. You may not be aware but doing favour’s for each other and helping folk without reward is something adults do in the world of grown-ups. Whining that ‘other people do things or make a mess too’ and ‘if you help I will tidy my bit’ is what children say, actually taking responsibility for our own actions and mess regardless of others is what adults do. Of course there are far worse things going on everywhere, nobody is saying what you are doing is anything more than thoughtless, irresponsible and upsetting. Being young and wild, enjoying hanging about in groups, having fun that at times annoys people is what we all did in our youth, more often than not adults didn’t approve but on the whole we respected others and avoided deliberately irritating and offending people. Believe me as adults we still enjoy ourselves big time but usually take on a rather more responsible attitude to our surroundings and others. No-one has a problem with what you lot all do for fun, what you do for a living or how many friends you have…ultimately you all know perfectly well that it’s the fag butts, empty cans, litter, loud foul language and apparant disregard for the area that upsets people including the responsible parents of young children using the park but you simply don’t care or choose not to address it so unfortunately there is nothing more to be said.
Malling Moaner – Your issue was not wanting young children have fun in their own gardens, this is about adults (Mr.b is almost 30) being abusive and disrespectful around people and young children using a public facility and area. If you feel that makes me a hypocrite then so be it.